Free
App
The SA CoParents App

With Reflection.
Build Alignment.
Create Better Agreements.

SA CoParents helps parents independently identify their child’s needs, concerns and parenting priorities, discover areas of shared understanding, identify differences without assigning blame, and explore options and resources for moving forward.

Step 1

What best describes your situation?

There are no wrong answers. Your choice helps us route you to the safest and most relevant starting point.

Private guest access · No payment required · About 10 minutes

Three core reports — plus specialized reports based on your family’s needs

Real deliverables you can hand to a mediator, therapist, or attorney.

Every parent produces the three core reports below. Families using the Special Needs pathway also receive additional individual, deep-dive, and side-by-side comparison reports tailored to their situation.

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Understand your co-parenting situation

A private snapshot of how you and the other parent are actually communicating today — with concrete next steps.

Downloadable PDF · shareable
2

Create your Foundation Statement

A one-page statement of your child-focused goals — the anchor you can return to whenever things get emotionally hot.

Downloadable PDF · shareable
3

Prepare a Child Needs Statement for mediation

A structured, child-focused agenda you can bring straight into your mediation session or attorney meeting.

Downloadable PDF · shareable
Your Six-Step Parent Journey

Six plain-language steps toward a healthier plan for your child.

Each step is written for parents first. The formal terminology (used by attorneys, mediators, and therapists) appears in smaller text underneath so the professionals reviewing your reports can find the same information.

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Step 1

What's Going On?

Tell Us About Your Family

Tell us a little about your current parenting situation. There are no wrong answers.

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Step 2

How Is Co-Parenting Going Right Now?

Co-Parenting Relationship Assessment

A short reflection on how the two of you exchange information, share decisions, and manage handoffs.

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Step 3

What Does Your Child Need Most?

Child Needs Assessment

Think about your child's routines, relationships, education, health, activities and emotional needs.

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Step 4

What Matters Most to You as a Parent?

Foundation Statement

We'll organize what you've told us into a clear Foundation Statement — your starting point in your own words.

See what one looks like →
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Step 5

Where Do We See Things the Same — and Differently?

Joint Assessment

If both parents participate, we identify areas of alignment as well as areas that may need more conversation.

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Step 6

Your Family's Next-Step Guide

Joint Alignment Report

Not a verdict on who's right — options, resources, and questions you can take into mediation or a conversation with a professional.

Every step is designed to help you make better decisions for your child — not to decide which parent has the better answer.

The Parent Philosophy

Start With Alignment.
Build Toward Agreement.

Alignment does not mean agreement. Two parents may disagree about schedules, schools, activities, medical treatment or communication — and still become aligned around something more fundamental.

Shared concerns often sound like this
  • “Our child needs consistency.”
  • “Our child needs a meaningful relationship with both parents.”
  • “School needs to become more stable.”
  • “Transitions are difficult for our child.”
  • “We need a better way to exchange information.”

Once the app identifies those shared concerns, negotiations become much easier — even between parents who can’t agree on the details.

“We value the parenting system by how well it supports the child, not by how friendly the adults appear.”

Successful co-parenting doesn’t require former partners to become friends. Sometimes clear boundaries, limited communication and predictable structure are healthier than trying to create an artificially friendly relationship.

Why parents trust SA CoParents

Built with care. Honest about limits.

Every assessment, PDF, and coaching prompt was designed with two beliefs in mind: parents deserve tools that respect their intelligence, and children deserve outcomes that come from real preparation — not a black box.

Created by

Matt Sossi · Founder, SA CoParents

Built in San Antonio, Texas — because too many parents were walking into mediation reactive, unprepared, and afraid. Our mission is to move families from emotionally reactive to child-focused, one conversation at a time.

Your data is protected

Yours to keep. Yours to delete.

  • Your answers are never sold or used to train AI models.
  • Delete your account and all data any time — deletion is complete within 30 days.
  • Share links you create can be revoked. Locked safety sections stay in every shared PDF.
What this tool can and can’t do

Preparation, not diagnosis.

Can do: Help you name goals, structure your thinking, and generate reports child-focused enough to hand a mediator or pediatrician.

Can’t do: Replace a lawyer, therapist, mediator, or physician. Every score is a conversation starter — never the last word.

When to seek professional help

If safety is a question, call a human.

  • 988 — Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text)
  • 1-800-799-SAFE — National Domestic Violence Hotline
  • 911 — Immediate danger
  • Consult a family law attorney before any custody agreement is signed.
  • A licensed therapist can support your child through transition — this app can’t.
Still deciding?

Answers to the last four questions parents ask.

  • Do I need my co-parent to participate?+

    No. You can complete every assessment, generate every report, and follow every pathway on your own. The comparison views become available if and when your co-parent chooses to join — never before.

  • Will my co-parent see what I write?+

    Your answers are private to you until you explicitly hit Share on a specific report. Even then, only the report content is shared — not your raw answers. You can revoke any share link at any time.

  • Is this a substitute for a mediator, therapist, or attorney?+

    No — and it’s not meant to be. SA CoParents helps you arrive at those conversations prepared, with a clear agenda and the right questions. It is preparation and communication support, not legal or clinical advice.

  • What if my situation involves conflict or safety concerns?+

    Pick the situation that fits — the app will route you to a structured-written pathway and Texas crisis resources instead of a joint-mediation pathway. Safety comes before every other recommendation, always.

Take the First Step

Your Children Deserve Parents Who Can Work Together

Every step toward healthier communication creates a stronger foundation for your children.

Discover Your Co-Parenting Strengths and Growth Opportunities

Take the first step toward healthier communication, stronger cooperation, and better outcomes for your children.

From Conflict to Cooperation. From Disagreement to Understanding. From Parenting Apart to Raising Children Together.